Edith Wharton’s “Age of Innocence” (1920) told of a time when “unblemished honesty was the noblesse oblige of old financial New York.” If a financier did harm to clients, even if no law had been broken, he became a social and business outcaste. Oh, how things have changed on Wall Street in the early part of the 21st century!
Edith Wharton’s Age of Innocence (1920) depicted the false self as manifested by the majority of New York City’s upper crust in the late 19th Century. In this society, as she saw it, the unspoken rule was never to acknowledge unpleasantness and better yet never even to know it was there at all. Devoted to superficial, its denizens experienced that “real loneliness is living among all theses kind people who only ask one to pretend.” i
The Broadway musical “Next to Normal,” music by Tom Kitt and book and lyrics by Brian Yorkey, played recently in Indy. It was a moving portrayal of a bipolar disorder and its effects on the person with the disorder, her family, and those trying to provide treatment.
To reduce test-taking anxiety, study the material and then practice what you’ll be using on the test itself. Writing about the anxiety shortly before taking the test decreases the fear by facing and expressing it. Before and during the test, use relaxation techniques for calming. (Time, Relax, it’s only a test, 2013, 181, 5, 42-45)
If your child has ADHD, consider that there are behavioral interventions at home and at school that can be helpful. Medication effects can be augmented by these interventions. (Monitor on Psychology, 2013, 44, 2).
Actually, The American Psychologist (2013, 68, 2) reports a pandemic. In the United States, over two thirds of adults are obese or overweight with the prevalence having doubled since 1980. Other countries are reporting similar upswings and trends are particularly alarming in children.
The abuse of prescription drugs, often from the medicine cabinet, is second only to marijuana for adolescents.. (Monitor on Psychology, 2013, 44, 2, p. 18)
5 tips to maximize focus and memory: 1) Meditate at least 20 minutes a day, 2) Deliberately focus when paying attention is needed, 3) Resist multi-tasking, 4) Reduce extraneous physical distractions, and 5) Sleep 7 to 8 hours a night. (Mind, Mood & Memory, March 2013, p. 5)
Even a little exercise can significantly extend life. (Monitor on Psychology, 2013, 44, 2, p. 19)
Older people are likely to miss social cues indicating that a person is not to be trusted.
(Monitor on Psychology, 2013, 44, 2, p. 19)